HELP!!! Friends Addiction :(?

Question by .: HELP!!! friends addiction :(?
my best friend is addicted to heroin.
I’ve talked to numerous people about helping her, and no matter what people try to suggest, i still feel stuck.

I’ve been friends with this girl for a really long time. she started dating this total douche bag who eventually got her hooked on pills. after a while she stopped talking to almost all of her friends and family, except for me. even our contact is rare. her and her boyfriend moved into an apartment together recently and i found out he was selling dope. i always knew he was bad news and vocalized my opinions to her over and over, but she seemed to think differently about him. she would do anything for this as*hole. basically, if her mom was on her death bed and her boyfriend called and told her that he needed something she would leave her moms side and cater to him (only an example) she came to my house about 4 months ago a complete mess confessing to me that shes been stealing her man’s stash and blowing/sniffing it. i cried and asked her why and we talked for a while. i think its because of stress caused by being “on her own”. after that day, every time i see her i try not to bring it up and focus on other things like work and hows shes been. she comes to see me every so often, but every time we see each other all she talks about is drugs. weather it be how they got some
really good weed or how they stole money from so and so. her life revolves around drugs. she quit work because of the rumors of her drug addiction (which were true but shes lying about it so much i think shes actually starting to believe the lies herself) after a couple of months she told me that she started shooting the dope. i asked her if her man knew about it and she said he didn’t. the only person she told about it was me. when i asked who she gets her smack from she tells me “from my mans friend” but thats a complete lie. why would you go to someone else to get it when its sitting in your house for free? anyways, i feel totally confused about the whole situation. she lies and says that she stopped but i know she hasn’t. i ask her to go to rehab and she says that no one will take her because shes not 21 yet. i tell her to go to the methadone clinic and talk to someone about maybe getting suboxone pills to ween her off of the opiates, she tells me shes already tried. SOMETHINGS GOT TO GIVE!! i am at a complete loss. i just dont know what to do. i tell her how much it hurts me, but its not about how i feel. she needs to understand that she needs help. shes mentioned to me that she knows she needs help and she feels like a scumbag but she doesn’t do anything about it. Evey solution i come up with doesn’t seem like a reasonable answer. its such a difficult thing to deal with. I’M NOT EVEN THE ONE ADDICTED. i feel like since i’m her best friend and she confides in me that i should be the one to get her help! .. whenever i talk to anyone about it, it kinda puts a damper on the mood cause like i get mad/ frustrated when trying to think of ways to help and don’t come up with an answer. its not only affecting her but me as well.

if you’ve read all of this THANK YOU SO MUCH for taking the time. advise is much appreciated!! thanks so much in advance for any feed back.

Best answer:

Answer by bball 03
duhhrr…. I read it over five times but don’t feel like answering because I’m a dueche like that

Answer by irish eyes
Sounds like she is telling a lot of lies which is very common in addicts. See if you can find a local intervention program that can try to help get her into a program. Heroin is one of the hardest addictions for people to kick.

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